Friday, August 21, 2009

Dane's first babysitter

We made our first plans to leave Dane with someone other than his grandparents last week. We had bought tickets to a concert in Tinley Park (Blink 182, FOB, and Panic! at the Disco) that we were very excited to use. We ended up finding a sitter on the Wheaton College babysitter list, a current student who lived in the area with her parents. I went through what she'd need to know a million times, writing and re-writing instructions about feeding times, napping preferences, bedtime routine and more. Mark finally said I would scare her off if I wrote more than a page, so I decided it was time to let go of the worry and know that we could handle however it turned out. Our sitter showed up right on time and seemed like a very sweet, knowledgeable girl. I kept saying, "I haven't done this before" to justify my seemingly over-detailed direction. She was very patient and kept telling us to enjoy ourselves. We finally got everything together and walked out the door. The concert was so much fun - Mark and I found ourselves laughing harder than we have in months. We stopped at Sonic for a date-dinner before the concert and then continued on to our lawn seats at the show. It was a beautiful night and we had a great view. It was so much fun to feel free again together, and we truly enjoyed the date. We came home to a sleeping Dane, and glowing reports about how easy he'd been, and while the house was a disaster and there apparently had been a catastrophic spit-up in his clothes and the crib, all was well. Phew. First one down, hopefully, a few more to go:)

4 comments:

  1. That first time is always a bit scary...good job girly!!

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  2. hey i think i can see blink playing in the background of the picture with us...good thing i used the flash. doh!
    -m

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  3. Way to go! I am so glad you guys had such a fun date night together! :)

    I am too anxious to leave Camille with a babysitter still. I don't want someone to be stuck with a fussy baby and I feel badly that we don't have cable or good movies. ha ha ha! You are so lucky to have the Wheaton babysitter list there. We don't have anything like that here in Indy.

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  4. first sentence is an inaccurate statement... just saying.

    glad you had fun though.

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